You probably are laughing at the title of this blog post. I mean, the whole idea of knowing yourself better involves some level of self-introspection, honesty, and self-discovery. In other words, such activities have something to do with higher or better things in life and probably nothing with sites like these. Of course, at the other end of the spectrum, are the raw, nasty, and purely material and physical things like, you guessed it—fucking.

So, what do these two extremes have to do with each other? It turns out that if you truly are an honest student of the human experience, everything. That’s right, fucking, as raw and basic as it may seem, actually says a lot and can help you learn a lot about the larger reality of what it’s like to be a human being.

A lot of people have really conflicted feelings about sex. On the one hand, they think that it’s dirty and that it’s so basic that a lot of them would simply just engage in it just to have kids. Everything else is off limits. Heavens forbid that people would have sex for pleasure. On the other hand, there are many people who think that sex is everything. They enjoy sex so much that they eat, breathe, live, shit, piss, and drink sex. In their estimation, there is really nothing else to life than the sex act.

Thankfully, the reality lies somewhere in between these two extremes. You can know yourself better through active sex. By having a lot of sex with different people you can discover an important truth or two about yourself. If you’re at all into the fuck dating scene, then listen up. Here are some ways you can turn your sexual hobbies into venues for greater self-discovery and a transcendent state of personal consciousness.